Sunday, February 21, 2010

End of Hols, End of Hell? (as i know it)

So hols are drawing to a close, and 3.5 months have just zoomed past like nobody's business. And its weird when you realise the upcoming sem is about the same duration with the hols we just had. Time to bid adieu to home sweet home, and say hello to bright sunny Sunway. Here's what I've learnt in the past few months or so (not that you'd care lol but I aint askin for yr permission).

* its better to ask for forgiveness than for permission

* some people are just a waste of time to have in your life. its better to just cut them out.

* the time will come when u have to finally step up and take a stand on yr own life. and not follow what ppl always tell u to do. if not, you'll be living THEIR lives, not YOURS.

* boredom has its own benefits. sometimes.

* holidays doesnt necessarily equate to good times. yours truly found out the extremely painful way.

* if ppl cant accept u for who u are, then they dun really care abt u. of course, some have their own standards and principles and stuff, but every relationship has certain "gives and takes". u cant expect someone to change their behaviour just because someone else doesnt like it.

* talking about problems doesnt necessarily makes you feel better, given the saying "talking it out will make u feel better". [ok its not really a saying lah but u geddit]. while it may hold true at times, sometimes it doesnt cos the person u talk it out to doesnt actually care about it altho they persistently ask. they just wanna know for the sake of knowing.

* friends come and go. having good friends is healthy (yes it is). sadly, good friends are hard to find nowadays. and those friends that u tink are close to u may just be assholes in disguise, and cant be trusted.

* sleeping late and being haunted every night is very very unhealthy. messes alot with your mind and body.

* late night chats on the phone that last for hours are pretty fun. unless u hear a scary male voice on the line all of a sudden when you're talking to a girl.

* gaining weight is a surreptitious activity. u THINK u still weigh and look the same (ard there). next thing u know poof u gained 8kg.

* when ppl say "ill think abt it/i'll try/i'll see what i can do", most prolly they wont do nothing.

* tragedy can strike at any damn time. and they force u to tap into a side of yrself that u didnt know existed, and delve into the strange world of evil (as in behavioural evil, not Jennifer's Body evil)

* being chased by a huge ginormous flying insect for 10+ mins around yr house at 3am is really good exercise.

* when yr chamber of secrets has been opened and u are asked about it, just deny it [especially if its a secret u do not want known].

* Singapore is so much better than JB. Im so glad Im Sporean, altho JB will forever be my home.

* apparently ive been emo for wayyyyyy too long that now, when Im happy ppl think Im on drugs.

* Facebook is getting really boring. All people do nowadays are become fans of this and that and send really annoying invitations to be on their damn farm/aquarium/mafia.

* Sometimes u really cant read people at all. Those popular kids in school (those typical swimmer/sportsppl etc) may actually turn out to be "queer", and those shoved in the back who constantly get derided (being called gay, weirdo etc) may turn out to be popular in their later years.


7 days to March 1. To Sem. To nerding. To stress. May the Force be with us all. I am hoping so much that I do NOT get a repeat of first sem. that whole sem was a gigantic mess.

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