In the midst of this emotional turmoil at having to deal with one of the most hurtful and painful phases that had unexpectedly [or maybe expectedly?] occured [which I'm so hoping can be cleared though the pessimist in me say that this time it's over for good], I came across a very insightful note that ought to turn u guys a lil more introspective and think for a bit. It's very wordy, and it can give u a headache at first glance, but if u bother, u will find it to be very meaningful.
"Funny how life works out, we're preached about destiny,fate, religion, morals etc. But really life doesnt just work out does it? Maybe life really is what we make of it, what you lose.. what you gain.. it's all due to a choice you made either now or a long time ago. We like to claim how people change over the years, but do they really? We might change how we look on the outside but arent we still the same on the inside? Does it mean that cause we're all different from each other that we have to use it as a reason to not like each other? Maybe its just the environment we live in, maybe its just human mentality, maybe its just that we overthink whats right and whats wrong too much. It's a lovely sunday morning, as i look out the window i see the lil kids swimming in the pool, the old aunty and uncle having a walk around the condo.. The mother and father pushing their kid on the swing. Look out the window, but clear your mind before you do that. Just have a look around.. Maybe youll see that life isnt as bad as you think it is. Maybe youll figure that maybe one day when you grow up youll have the answer to all your questions. Maybe, youve just been looking in the wrong places for those answers. Maybe one day you;ll appreciate what you have. Maybe, just maybe..only.. maybe.. Will you realise that, what really matters is never ever giving up. We meet lots of people along the way, some of whom we never see again and some who we never ever dare to imagine never seeing again. All of us have people who mean tons to us, we gotta hold them close, cuz when all else comes crashin down we know, that they'll still be there for us, helping us get through it as best as they can. I never really thanked my lucky star for the amazing friends that i have without whom id be so lost. Have you ever really sat down and thought where youd be without them? haha all those times at kfc/macs.. all the times theyve come over and youve went over to their crib, the times when you did the arab money dance haha, carrying your drunk friend everywhere to find him a place to crash, chilling at fort canning looking up at the sky, all the times u decided to be a typical mat and slack under a void deck hahha, those times when u look over to your friend trying to blow smoke rings with sheesha haha and thinking hes super cool cause hes the " ringmastaaaa", ALL THOSE TIMES YOU CAMWHORED EVERYWHERE AND ANYWHERE!!!!! (\m/) but most importantly all those times when you were just together, smiling and laughing. If you love someone stay true to it if you really believe in what you have, cause love isnt just about being with that person, its not about how much you see each other, the number of gifs you buy them, its not abt wht goes on behind cloosed doors, i believe its about having someone that you know, you can be totally helpless with. Love's about the small little things like when you look in that persons eyes n see your reflection, its that feeling you get when when that persons in your arms, love is about.. just wanting the be the best you can be for the other person and love is also about sacrifice. I think i finally know what that sacrifice means, its about not holding the other person back from the best he/she can be. Its about letting go when you have to and holding them tight when you need to.. because no matter how far that person may be from you, theyre still thinking about you, holding their pillow.. wishing that you were there too. W're never alone, theres always someone out there thinking of you. Cherish every moment youve had or have with that person and hold it close to your heart , because no matter what love has a way of finding its way back to you just as long as you have faith in each other."
Certain things may not apply to you[like the camwhoring/arab money dance etc], but the essence of this post shd still get u ppl thinking.
Written by Immy YoursTruly Sexcy [some dude]. Used without permission.
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